Message from CDA, Ms. Ludwig
Has your child ever come home in tears because one of their classmates, who they thought was their friend, had been making fun of them during school, on the playground, and at lunch.
When they finally tell you what is happening and express their frustration, make sure to validate their feelings.
But also know this is an opportunity to teach them about standing up.
You need to teach our kids that any type of teasing isn’t ever OK.
Even if your kids think the person isn’t trying to be rude or mean, teasing can still hurt.
And although you can’t protect your kids from hurt 24/7, you can teach them to speak assertively and stand up for themselves.
You can suggest to your child to try this phrase:
“I don’t like it when you tease me. Friends don’t tease friends.”
This phrase is simple and direct but still respectful. It gives kids a way to stand up for themselves and even others.
This week’s guide, How to Respond to Teasing, is a perfect way to help your child navigate these situations.
